Every woman, they say, has a celebrity crush, and most are based on the object of said crush being really good looking to the "average" woman. According to various internet polls - so you know it must be true - men who fit in this category are Chris Pratt, Bradley Cooper and Matthew McConaughey, although surely everyone knows …
Life by PIN and password
I stood in front of the ATM machine with my almost 3-year-old grandson contemplating the meaning of life. It was already 98 degrees and 3,542 percent humidity, and this was supposed to be a very quick stop to get money from Nana's rarely used "special" account for our spontaneous adventure. The problem was that said …
Holding hands with a Trump voter
One of the best parts of being on vacation for Catholic nerds is having the luxury of going to daily mass. Sure, vacation could be defined as sleeping in, laying on a beach, reading through summer book lists or hiking Machu Picchu, but as a working stiff most of the year, I rarely get the …
I’ve still got it
I get hit on by homeless men. Not hit by homeless men, which might make more sense because the guys hanging out around the transit center can sometimes be cantankerous. No, I mean what I said, hit on by homeless men, as in "Hey, baby, que paso? The passes come after I jump off the …
In defense of Sarah Huckabee Sanders – an open letter to the Sisterhood
Let us begin with full disclosure: I do not like this current president. Every time the man tweets I feel like I'm in a monster movie. I have lost sleep because of him, I've lost friends because of him, and some days I think I just might lose my mind because of him. He is …
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How to stop a suicide
For the past few weeks, social media, blogs and the op-ed pages of the traditional press have been filled with articles about mental illness, prompted by the suicides of Kate Spade and Anthony Bourdain. In many cases, these articles are hand-wringing: Why, in such an advanced country, has the suicide rate grown by more than …
Life as a multiple choice test
I hate to fall into the "good old days" trap, but some moments call for it. Today is just such a moment. In the good old days - or simply back in 2009 - one could go to the grocery store, buy groceries, pay with a debit card, and have to do only two things …
Consistent pro-life ethic
One of the hardest things to do in this country is have a consistent pro-life ethic. It is one thing to be anti-abortion or anti-death penalty or anti-war, but it is something else to have what the late Cardinal Joseph Bernardin deemed a "seamless-garment" approach to pro-life issues. To him, claiming the pro-life mantle meant …
Mother’s day blessing and longing
This past weekend, my eldest son and daughter-in-law came over to celebrate Mother's Day early with dinner and a competitive game of Forty-Two. Yesterday, my youngest daughter called and said she and her husband want to see me Sunday on Mother's Day. No doubt, my youngest son and eldest daughter will call me on the …
Loitering in Starbucks
Yesterday, in my secret life as a detective, I walked into a local Starbucks, used the restroom, took a seat, scrolled through my phone for 10 minutes and then - gasp - left. Without buying anything. In spite of having $2.53 left on my Starbucks app and in spite of thinking an Americano would have …
